Look down, right now. Look at your chest. Can you see your cleavage?
Now imagine what a guy can see standing over you.
Guys have it ridiculously hard in this society, and as girls, I don’t think we realize how badly we contribute to that! A guy is going to look down to talk to you. Don’t give him something else to look at and to distract him.
I go to a school where we do have a dress code, but it’s mostly on the length of our dresses and not wearing leggings as pants and all that, which is great! Those rules were made for a reason, and it wasn’t to be strict and mean. At a Christian school, they are only looking out for the best of all of us. I’m really sorry to all who don’t agree, but yoga pants are the exact same thing as leggings. But this is just proof that modesty is far more than a dress code.
Let me ask you this: Do you want to be known for the outline of your body or do you want to be known for the Christ-like composition you hold? I know I personally don’t want to walk into a room anywhere and have a Godly man who is trying to keep his focus on Him be distracted. You are not his, so don’t give him the ability to have the thoughts like you are. Let me explain. If you walk in with a low-cut shirt and yoga pants that outline your buttcrack, a guy is going to think you’re sexy. Congrats. But the thoughts that go along with that do not belong in his mind. Those thoughts belong to your future husband. Yes, a guy is going to think what he wants, but don’t be the reason he does!
I’m not writing this to judge anybody or to condemn anyone, because, believe me, I have my faults as well with all of this. But I just want to encourage you all to be the great examples to not only the men you surround yourself with, but the women as well. Be the amazing woman of God that He has called you to be!
1 Peter 2:12 - “Be careful to live properly among your unbelieving neighbors. Then even if they accuse you of doing wrong, they will see your honorable behavior, and they will give honor to God when he judges the world.” (NLT)
1 Timothy 2:9-10 - “I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.” (NIV)
1 Peter 3:3-4 - “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” (NIV)
oo girl. I read the first line and I was just like fucking noise in a bottle.
DOESN’T MATTER IF I WEAR NON CLEAVAGE SHIRT.
AND MY ASS
AND MY BODY WILL BE SHOWING.
Do you think all the women who get raped it’s because they’re attractive, wearing a short skirt, or were drunk?
-rubs forehead- I CANNOT
SOMEONE GO IN BECAUSE IT’S BEEN TO MUCH TODAY
WHAT IF GOD WANTS MEN TO SEE MY ASS AND TITS? WHO AM I TO INTERFERE IN GOD’S WILL? IF GOD DIDN’T WANT PEOPLE TO SEE THE OUTLINE OF MY BUM, HE SHOULDN’T HAVE LET HUMAN BEINGS INVENT LEGGINGS?
ONLY A CRUEL GOD WOULD DENY MEN THE OPPORTUNITY TO LOOK AT MY BUM?
look at these dirty little pillows, these fleshy containers of sin, whisking away the good virtuous christian man with their wicked wiles. what is their purpose?? feeding children? NO, THEIR SOLE PURPOSE IS TEMPTING OUR MEN INTO THE WAYS OF SIN AND ABOMINATION.
“Guys have it really hard in this society”
LOOK AT THAT HEATHEN WEARING A SKINTIGHT DRESS THAT HIGHLIGHTS HER TITS AND HER CURVES. WHAT A TREACHEROUS SNAKE.
hahahahahahahahahahaha god forbid I’m GAY and have no interest in a husband or your fucking ridiculous religion based moral codes hahahaha oh my god.
As much as I disagree with OP, I have to say that all of the responses and arguments are inept of real reason; in other words, complete shit.
If you people want to argue with someone online, can you at least give some constructive criticism and depth with your arguments instead of making yourselves look like completes assholes?
Back up your thoughts and words instead of just being judgmental sarcasticlly-bumbling elitist pricks.
Make sure to read “LIKE A BOSS” after each bullet point.
took a shower
got to school
went to 1st period
saved my classroom
with Deb and Julius
learned about veins
for the corazon
went to 2nd
walked with Richelle S.
and also Julius
got to 2nd
did an essay
couldn’t finish it ;.;
left for 3rd
listened to Bernstein
Suite from Mass <33333
need to practice
got to ditch 4th period
to make up essay
for AP Lang
(I’m going to break the “Like a Boss” thing now) Dude Ms. Atlansky left me alone in her classroom cause she had to go to the restroom and omg I have never been along all by myself in a classroom before and it felt weird but it was awesome.
Left from 4th to roam around until 5th started
Walked around with him because yeah :)
Went to the PAC so Shoaib could be excused for 5th
Hung out with him and Will III inside the Cafeteria
Saw Steve :D
went back inside
got pizza, yo.
Walked with Shoaib to Noche’s
left for 6th
Didn’t pay attention at all because History HW.
Got to 7th
Explained the Cuban Missile Crisis.
I’m so bad at explaining historical events that I learn about 20 minutes before explaining it.
I HAVE A B IN APUSH HALLELUJAH <3:D (How?)
Went to Ms. Muse’s
Gave her my AP Exam Reg form.
She was not mad at all <3
Met up with Madu <3
Hung out with her <333
My house, yo <33333
Tyler, the Creator started playing from my iHome (Tron Cat) and it killed the mood.
"You niggas rap about fucking bitches and gettin’ head while I rap about fucking bitches and gettin’ heads" and "Rape a pregnant bitch and tell my friends I had a threesome" aren’t the most comforting words to hear.
Started watching HIMYM <333
Took her to the Bus stop afterwards <333
Got Starbucks afterwards.
Saw Jonathan S. and Thapfa :)
Old mad walked in while I was peeing .____.
Walked back home
Parents came home
Walked to Logan to watch Night of Guard, Dance, and Drums :D <3